Hello and welcome to my homepage about trying to raising  "KIDS". I've been a DAD for 4 years now, I thought things would get easier as they would move along, boy was I wrong !! If anything I've learned one thing it's a learning experience, for how long I can't tell you just yet... but the way things are going looks like it's for life. Once I seem to have control on one thing they find something else to let me know that I don't control anything. Life has become a table of negotiations, you sit and try to figure out the best way to get them to do what you want them to do (yeah right), things don't always work at first but with time you will figure out little tricks that actually do help.

    Now a little about me, my name is Paulo Cruz I'm 31, Patty is my better half she's 26, Melissa is our oldest daughter she's 4, Samuel is the boy he's only 2 but don't let his age mislead you, we can't leave him alone for a minute before he's destroying everything insight. I work as a bartender, Patty works in a Daycare Center... actually both our kids go to work with her everyday. 

      I've put up this page to try and help new (newer than us ;)) parents with stuff that we might have gone threw and how we got around it. But I'm hoping that parents from everywhere will leave me tips on anything and everything concerning KIDS. I will put everything up on this page for everyone to have access to. I want this to be our page, let's see it grow together. If you read this far you probably have kids of your own or work with kids, and know that they are the greatest gift anyone can have. So please don't feel shy to give us your feedback, no matter what it might be, as long it has something to do with kids it belongs on this page.